and she actually didn’t freak out on me. :o
Only thing she said was to not get the 8-bit heart and keep them empty like I had orginally planned (have each heart filled when I had a child) because you never know if you will be childless.. which may sound strange, but my family has issues with pregnancies and is one of my greatest fears.
I AM SO GETTING ANOTHER TATTTOOOO C:
my brother is 21 years old and a chef in a 5 star restaurant and he still has dinosaur shaped chicken nuggets for dinner every night so dont let anybody tell you how to live your life
Fallen Princesses by Dina Goldstein
And that’s the most frustrating thing about depression. It isn’t always something you can fight back against with hope. It isn’t even something — it’s nothing. And you can’t combat nothing. You can’t fill it up. You can’t cover it. It’s just there, pulling the meaning out of everything. That being the case, all the hopeful, proactive solutions start to sound completely insane in contrast to the scope of the problem.
It would be like having a bunch of dead fish, but no one around you will acknowledge that the fish are dead. Instead, they offer to help you look for the fish or try to help you figure out why they disappeared.
This is actually a really good way to explain it, I think.